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How Somatic Trauma Therapy Heals Sexual Trauma
Sexual Trauma Healing Series [This guide is designed to be read in order. Each article builds on the previous one, creating a step-by-step understanding of how sexual trauma affects the body and how healing becomes possible.] Part 1 - Sexual Trauma Isn't Primarily About Sex: What It Really Damages Part 2 - Why Healing Sexual Trauma Doesn't Begin With Sexuality Part 3 [This Blog] - How Somatic Trauma Therapy Heals Sexual Trauma In the previous two articles, we explored what se
Julia Vaya
Jul 269 min read


Healing Sexual Trauma: Why It Shouldn't Start with Sexuality
Healing sexual trauma doesn't always begin where we expect. While many approaches focus on sexuality, genuine healing often starts by restoring the nervous system's sense of safety, protection, and choice. Discover why the body needs these foundations before intimacy can truly become healing again.
Julia Vaya
Jul 267 min read


The Effects of Sexual Trauma: Understanding What It Really Damages
The effects of sexual trauma are often misunderstood. This article explores how sexual trauma impacts the nervous system, why symptoms can appear long after the abuse, and how understanding the body's protective responses can replace shame with self-understanding and open the door to healing.
Julia Vaya
Jul 266 min read


Tantric Massage London: How Nervous System Regulation Improves Sex
Neuroscience is uncovering how our brain and autonomic nervous system shape every part of life—including our sexuality. These discoveries give us new explanations for sexual functioning, from desire to orgasm. The Role of the Autonomic Nervous System Regulation in Sexual Arousal and Pleasure The autonomic nervous system (ANS) plays a crucial role in how we get aroused, perform, and—most importantly—how we enjoy sex. This article explores how different nervous system states c
Julia Vaya
May 207 min read


Building Body Awareness Practice for Trauma Healing and Nervous System Regulation
Your body holds information your mind may not yet understand. This piece invites you to slow down, sense, and build a deeper connection through body vocabulary.
Julia Vaya
Mar 316 min read


Why I Transitioned from Tantra to Trauma Work and Nervous System Regulation
For years, I was deeply immersed in the world of Tantra and conscious sexuality. I saw its potential and its power to transform intimacy and sex. Yet, over time, I, like many of my colleagues, found myself gravitating towards psychology and trauma work. This transition wasn't a rejection of Tantra, but a profound realisation about the order in which healing truly happens. Agency at The Foundation of Maturity As children, we quite naturally expect our parents to solve all of
Julia Vaya
Mar 44 min read


Trusting Your Sexual Partner As Sex Expert To Heal Sexual Dysfunctions
An Insight To Healing Sexual Dysfunctions By Listening To Your Partner.
Julia Vaya
May 22, 20243 min read


How Your Dream Sex Life Starts with Investing in Intimacy
Sexual intimacy is one of the central elements in a romantic relationship. It helps the couple bond while keeping the desire alive. For both men and women, according to some studies, having a higher level of intimacy tends to be associated with having higher levels of sexual desire. Feeling and expressing intimacy in different stages of a relationship is also affected by biochemical reactions in the brain. To find out more, please read our previous post: “Hormones behind sexu
Julia Vaya
May 15, 20215 min read


Hormones Behind Sexual Intimacy and How They Foster Your Sex Life?
In the early stages of a relationship, our body hormones play a very important role in building intimacy - from first attraction to how we r
Julia Vaya
Apr 5, 20213 min read


Rekindle your sexless relationship by using 3 powerful steps
A persons sex drives goes through cycles throughout their life and prolonged sexless periods are not uncommon for many couples, especially when they are experiencing heightened stress levels. Hormones orchestrate our sex drive Stress hormones have been proven to effect testosterone levels. When cortisol levels increase testosterone levels decrease. Chronic stress can also lead to erectile dysfunction or impotence. A women's sex drive also changes depending on where she is in
Julia Vaya
Mar 4, 20214 min read
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